Dealing With Toxic People

Trying to deal with the moodiness of some people is quite challenging and draining. It takes to much energy to deal with people in this manner. Especially the ones who use their mood swings to either intimidate or manipulate. This kind of destructive behavior should not and will not be tolerated by me. I refuse to allow someone to take their negative emotions and gain from my positivity by dictating the atmosphere to best fit their selfish needs. I shall not use my patience, attentiveness, and sympathy on someone who choose to make me feel bad for something I did not do.

These type people makes it hard for me to breathe easy. I'm constantly watching what I say around them, act, or even look. Their like a walking, breathing time bomb and any wrong word is a trigger. I'm learning to be strong and understand when enough is simply enough. My well being is more important to me then anything and I have to continue protecting myself and family...

My Most Peaceful Hour

It is within these hours I find the most peace and calmness. The hours in which it's the darkest... The hours before dawn, before the sun breaks through giving you hope to see another day. It is within these hours I am at peace, writing , meditating, thinking and most of all reflecting. It is within these hours I tune into my inner self and search. 

Is it love???

Love is not measured by monetary exchanges or materialistic values , nor is it measured by lengthy relationships. Love is found deep within, the fact someone cares more about your well being then themselves. The fact they can not sleep knowing you hurt , knowing they need you like they need air to breathe. Knowing that you are their lifeline. True love is felt with an open heart and closed eyes! Is it true love? Or is it something convenient for the moment?

Quote of The Day 2

When you have two good options, always go with the one that scares you the most, because that’s the one that’s going to help you grow.

Quote of The Day

1. Focus your conscious mind on things you desire not things you fear.  Doing so brings dreams to life.

It's A Blessing In Itself

This is going to be quick but I will go into more detail later in the next blog, or so. Things happen for a reason, there is a time and season for all things. Everyone deserves happiness and everyone deserves to find love. Everyone deserves balance in their life, people come and go but friends are forever. You may never know what God or who God has in place for you and for what reason!!!

Now think on all that I just said! 

Yeah all of this was confirmed this morning! 

Love y'all!!! 

What Are You Going To Do

It comes down to a simple question: what do you want out of life, and what are you willing to do to get it?

"2014 Travels"

2014 HERE I COME!!!! 

Today I will start a travel fund for next year! Yup this week I will place a small amount into my new travel fund in preparation for my many travels in 2014. There's no better time to start saving then now. You know those days when you wish you could get away, go to a hotel and relax, a near by beach, or even a foreign country, or island. Put aside $25-$50 a week in preparation for spring next year and you're all set. So when you're ready to just get away from life you're able to do so. I intend to mark a lot off my bucket list next year! I'm looking forward to 2014!! 

In my next blog, I'm going to place links for travel services that are fairly cheap, and hotels that I just simply love. 

Quote of the Day!

“All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seeds of today.” ~Proverb

Eating To Live, Not Living To Eat

Eating to live NOT Living to eat

Throughout my entire life, I've suffered from some sort of insecurity, self conscious, self-esteem or some issue in regards to my appearance.

Here I am being honest with you and honest with myself. I am now 229lbs and I intend to lose 50lbs by my birthday August 19, 2014! This is not only the start of my weight lost but the start of a healthier living!!!!

I can do it!!! I know I can do it!!!! 

 

How About A Change Please

I wake up every day with the realization that this is it, that there's only one shot at this life and I can either enjoy the ride and live it to its fullest and to my highest potential or I can stay the way I am. 

"A New Me, Life Transitions"

"A New Me, Life Transitions"

I feel like a new person already. My transition has just begun and just knowing what the future has in store for me mentally, physically, and spiritually gives me joy that I can't even begin to explain. I'm detoxing my life! Yes, it's a long journey for me but I'm willing to pack all this luggage and piece by piece release myself from each one. 

A lot of my friends and family that are close to me knows that I have been struggling with my weight my entire life. I've had ups and downs in my life physically. I haven't been overweight or out of shape my entire life. I actually was my smallest and in my prime appearance wise in the years of 04 and 07-10.... I have always been big on fitness but recently I was hit with life, transitioned to being a full time single mother, jobless, and so much more. I gave up on my health and fitness because I felt life gave up on me. I no longer felt sexy or worthy of anyone's compliments because I didn't feel sexy, I didn't feel beautiful. I felt fat, ugly, and worthless. I even went into an emotional depression and shaved my entire head bald behind a broken heart and more. As I look back now, I am determined to get my life back like it was before I was hit with this load. Not only get it back, but make it better!!! So far I've been doing a wonderful job with allowing the universe to take control and lead me in the direction of my purpose, my destiny. This transition is only a minor part of getting my life in order. I intend to smile each day, because I only have one life. I want  my one life to be lived to the fullest. 

As of January 2013, I began to take responsibility for my life and where I was. I affirmed to myself that I was brave, bold and beautiful. I was determined to make a U turn in the direction of my life and get back on track with where I saw myself. I knew it would take some time but I'm making progress. I knew I had potential. It was a matter of discovering it. 

Here I am October 2013 and I'm now at my largest in weight ( other then during my pregnancy). I weigh in at 229! I am unhealthy, I have back problems, joint problems, breathing problems, and even my appearance is suffering. My insecurities are kicking in overdrive, and I am feeling it. 

Starting this day October 27, 2013 I intend to detox my life and get my health back on track, my appearance back on track, my self esteem back on track and not only look beautiful but feel beautiful! 

Everything is a reflection of me and I'm learning if I don't need it in my life it has to go. Food wise, I'm not going on a diet, because their fads, short term, and it's more like a mental thing when you're dieting. This is not a short term decision, this is my life I speak of. So therefore this is a decision to change everything overall for the better. 

Im going to began fasting. I just feel like cleaning the garbage out of my body. I no longer want to eat Processed and packaged food that arent fit for my body. I intend to place more nutrients, vitamins, and the needed foods to strengthen my body. I'm going to eat to live and stop living to eat. I'm going to work my way towards living a more vegan lifestyle. Not saying I'm giving up on meat period, I'm just cutting back on the portions and eat it in moderations. The more I see the potential in my decisions the more excited I am about nourishing it properly.

I intend to work out more, get fit and feel better. Today is that day and I'm not looking back! Here's to a more physically fit Daynomi and a more sexier Daynomi!!!!!! 

I even cleaned up the way I spoke. I'm refraining from the usage of profanity. I've always been told from my mother (who doesn't curse or allow her kids to think cursing is acceptable) that cursing belittles a persons intellectual being. You sound like your vocabulary is lacking. These words are not worthy of the highest! Yeah, that's what she said! Don't get me wrong, when I get upset I sound like a sailor but I absolutely have to work on that. 

Im going to stop lying. Yes, that's what I said. Not saying I make a habit of lying. I'm quite frankly a very honest person. Sometimes I find myself lying to cover up something I didn't want the person to know or avoid a question. I realized that if I felt I had to lie that I was doing things that I didn’t like. I also knew that lying was not accepting myself and it was only a reflection of that. 

I stop having "Pity Parties" for myself. I ditched the negative complaining about myself and others starting today! I'm no longer allowing others to dump their drama at my front door. We all have better things to do then to continue letting out past dictate our future in a negative way. It's all about positivity and growing from our experiences in a positive manner! Let's continue to talk about all the things that are going right in our life. Talking negatively will only attract negative crap into our world!!

This is my promise to my life, I intend to treat you better so therefore you will be better, do better, feel better, and last live better !!!!!!!!

P.S I wouldn't be me, if I didn't take Bri alone this journey!!!! My daughter will take this journey with me!

 

My Mood For The Day

I want to be the change that I wish to see!

Just that simple!

Now believe it........

Transfering Positive Energy Pt . 3

On this last part I'm going to discuss how we grow in our auric field and develop.... Yes, we do change as we get older, go through situations, and gain more wisdom and knowledge. Our auric field at 16 will not be the same auric field at 26 or even 36. If it never changes, then we have some serious development issues indeed.

As we grow we gain and lose friends alone the way. Have you ever heard the term, "we have chemistry?" Yes? That term is used to describe the auras that are harmonious to each other. We are naturally attracted to people whose auric field is harmonious to our own. Have you ever fallen out of love with someone, or find yourself no longer vibing with someone you once shared your friendship or life with? This happens when your frequencies are no longer ensync with each other. It's not that you've done something wrong, it's just a natural  thing that happens amongst us. Either our vibrations have gotten higher or lower. Maybe were just not vibing on the same frequency level anymore.  Maybe your chakras (.   Hindu metaphysical tradition and other belief systems Chakra (also chakro) are points in the human body, i.e. major plexuses of arteries, veins and nerves, that are centres of life force (prana), or vital energy.) are picking up on a damaged aura. Don't feel bad just be happy to know you are on a higher vibration. Hopefully you'll be lucky enough to have friends who evolve on the same pace as you, if so cherish that! 

Thanks for reading!!

Transfering Positive Energy Pt.2

I decided to make this a 3 part blog because a lot of people don't understand the importance of transfers of energy. I'm a person who considers themselves very knowledgeable of spirituality, astrology, metaphysics, and even scientific theories. I haven't always been this way, yet these subjects have always found their way in my life at some point. I've always been curious about these subjects but never dabble in them until my late twenties....

Anywho.....

Have you ever heard the terms; radiantly beautiful, green with envy, red with anger? Individuals with spiritual insight describe auras using these terms and others similar to these. 

However, Quatum Physics describes the Universe as energy, while yoga psychology calls the Auras Chakras....

What we do know is that our aura encircles us like the rays encircles the sun. Have you ever came in contact with a person only to feel a bad vibe, or just not feel that person at all. That bad vibe or feeling you're receiving is bad energy. Not saying that person is a bad person, but you and that person are not traveling on the same frequency. You and that person are not "gelling" or "vibing".... That persons spiritual development, or mental attitude may not be attractive to your aura. All the daily aspects of that persons life registers within their aura, their energy.

We may be able to hide behind mask and put up walls to deter others of who we really are but our aura can never be hidden. It is the one thing that shows our true aspects of self. That's why balance is needed within our lives. Stress has to be removed from our lives, because this can significantly damage the way your energy interacts with others. Many people just don't understand how powerful their negative energy can be. Have you ever converse with someone only to feel drained afterwards. This person takes too much energy to deal with. Now imagine dealing with this type of aura on the daily. You will become run down, stressed, fatigue, and possibly irritable because this persons negative energy is puncturing your positive aura causing your vital energy to leak out. How many times have we said, "I just can't deal with him/her today. I don't have time for this!" That's your aura needing a break to balance again, and put you back into position with the universe. This is why we meditate, pray, and even do yoga, to place a balance within our lives.

To be continued.........

Transfering Positive Energy pt.1

I've noticed that I'm becoming more and more unattached to material things as well as emotions. No I'm not becoming heartless, I'm just using my heart less... I'm still the caring individual I've always been. I just decided to place my energy into things that matter, things that I can control, and people who are worthy of my energy. 

We may not know it but people transfer energy through communication as well as the physical touch, however it isn’t enough just to pay attention to yourself. There is always an energy exchange between people and it does not always have a positive effect on our health. 

Everyone has an auric field and I'm protecting mines by all cost. 

If you're unsure of what an auric field is, it's a traditional term for the protective psychic and spiritual energy fields that surround and penetrate the physical body. Historically, artists depict halos around the heads of individuals to denote their spirituality. Biblically, writers refer to the raiment or countenance of light in an attempt to describe the field of spiritual energy around angels, men, and women. It is from this invisible atmosphere that we receive our first impression.....

When we allow the wrong people, such as negative people into our auric field it throws us off balance, causes us to lose focus, and shift our position of peace. 

I'm slowly but surely finding peace with myself and those I have in my life. I can actually feel the happiness and peace I've been searching for. I'm not all the way there but is such a wonderful feeling to know you're on your way. 

Check those who you allow into your life. You're not being selfish or negative, you're just showing how much you love yourself. Like I said, I'm not becoming heartless, I'm just using my heart less... 

Scripture Of The Day

Zephaniah 3:17 ESV

The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.

Quote Of The Day

“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence

Laughter And Happiness

I love people who make me laugh, I think it's one of the things I like the most. Laughter is like a cure, a medicine, it's even contagious! It's a sign of happiness, or a release for frustration or exhaustion. I've learned that being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.
You've decided that some things are best left untouched and appreciated for the way it is and the way it will be. An appreciation not for what we don't have but for what we do have. Laughter is simply the sound of happiness. Simple things bring pleasures to my heart such as, smiles, a loving text message, a walk in the park with my daughter, her laughter, a drive through the country, a walk on the beach. Simple but yet pleasant! Even the bible talks of happiness and living happily..
Check out my happiness scriptures in my next blog. I put together a list of scriptures from the bible to aid you in your quest for happiness...
I'm happy, not content but I'm happy. I couldn't say this last year, but I had to learn only Daynomi is in controlled of her happiness. I can not allow another person to be in complete control. You have to live, love and laugh!!!!

Life Quote

Never sacrifice your dignity for your destiny!

Quote Of The Day

The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss, but that it is too low and we reach it. ~ Michelangelo

"Be Unapologetic About Your Life"

Life is supposed to be celebrated, not tolerated. It's suppose to be lived fully, maximized, limitless. You're suppose to be happy, and liberated. Live like life loves you! Act on the impossible, because everyday we have countless opportunities to leave our mark and make a difference in small and ordinary ways. Do it with no regrets, regardless as to whose watching, wondering, or whispering. You are the creator of your destiny, the architect of your own foundation. Now is the time to live your design!

Daynomi

The Official Bucket List

BUCKET LIST


*Start a successful blog
*Learn To Meditate*****
*Learn to Tithe more in Church
*Own my own Home
*Own and Operate A Successful Lounge
*Grow my Locs to my knees
*Perform at a College in each state
*Own and Operate a successful Photography Company
*Have passionate Sex on the beach in the water
*Ride in an airplane
*Go to Las Vegas
*Have sex on the roof top of a tall building
*Get married on the beach/ maybe a destination wedding
*Go horse back riding
*Go snowboarding
*Visit Johannesburg South Africa
*Swim in the clear waters of The Maldives Islands
* Travel to Paris, France and walk to the top of the Eiffel Tower with my Mother
*Spend St. Patrick’s Day in Dublin, Ireland
*Climb Stone Mountain
*Publish a Successful Book Of Poems
*Take a road trip from LA to New York
*Visit Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
*Dance In the Rio Carnival Parade
*Photograph Christ The Redeemer Statue in Rio
*Go to the airport and board a plane with no preconceived ideas of where it will be going
*Swim with Dolphins
*Drive a maseratti
*Achieve financial abundance with your passion*******
*Spend New Years Eve in New York
*Take My Daughter to the White House Easter Egg Roll
*Go to The Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade
*Learn to jet ski
*Learn how to ride a motorcycle
*Perform in Europe
*Ride in a hot air balloon
*Attend Mardi Gras
*Get my motorcycle license
*Go paintballing with friends
*Go to a gun range and learn to shoot a gun!
*Achieve my ideal weight and size which is size 10, 195 lbs
*Do a beach photoshoot with a thong bikini
*Visit all 50 states of America, collect a keychain from each state
*Vacation in St.Thomas Island
*Vacation in Jamaican
*Go to Disney land
*Smoke a real Cuban cigar
*Visit Napal Valley and make my own wine
*Stand in the crown of the Statue Of Liberty
*Visit The Blue Lagoon geothermal spa
*Visit The Sandusky, Ohio Cedar Point Amusement Park and ride the worlds fastest rollercoasters and largest highest steel coaster
*Stay in an overwater Bungalow in Bora Bora
*Perform on a stage in California for a sold out crowd!!
*Cook a six course meal with my lover
*Go to a real blues bar in Chicago.
*Go to a jazz club in New Orleans' French Quarter.
*Ride A Cable Car in San Francisco
*Visit the "louvre museum" in France
*Take a cruise on "Allure of The Seas" Cruise Ship
*Visit toys r us time square
*Build A Bonfire and Make S'mores
*Sleep in a hammock
*Go indoor rock climbing
*Run through the streets in my underwear
*Meet Mickey and Minnie Mouse
*Perform at Hard Rock Cafe anywhere
*Vacation in Anguilla
*Vacation in Antigua
*See the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco
*Do a performance with someone famous ex.Erykah Badu, Outkast, Jill Scott, The Roots
*Record a poetry album that will be sold in stores
*Learn To Swim with my daughter
*Own A 750 BMW
*Open A Physical Store Kids Consignment Boutique
*sing karaoke infront of a bunch of strangers
*Regain my passion for performance
*Coordinate my family's First Family Reunion
*Take my Mother and Aunt on A Beach Trip Together
*Organize a family trip for my family
*Get back into modeling
*Live a healthier life food wise*******
*Learn Two New Languages
*Ride A Yacht in Miami
*Learn to Rollerblade
*Learn how to ride a unicycle
*Learn how to drive a speedboat
*Learn to say "hello" in 50 languages.
*Learn to play the drums
*Become a millionaire
*Create a Trust Fund For my daughter
*Open A Swiss Bank Account
*Drink a bottle of champagne that costs over $1,000
*Own an island